The Meaning of Life…

The meaning of life resides in joy and the feelings of harmony connected to happiness; without happiness, life loses meaning. Happiness is at the heart of our lives and our demand for a meaning.

One great question underlies our experience, whether we think about it consciously or not: What is the purpose of life? I believe that the purpose of life is to be happy. From the moment of birth, every human being wants happiness and does not want to suffer. From the very core of our being we simply desire contentment.

I don’t know whether the universe, with its countless galaxies, stars, and planets, has a deeper meaning, but at the very least it is clear that we humans who live on this Earth face the task of making a happy life for ourselves.

For me,A life without love and friendship is a meaningless life. The meaning of life is, largely, given by love and friendship.Life is not a game to play ….

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Posted on January 30th, 2010 by shonnie  |  No Comments »

ME and MY BOSS

When I Take a long time to finish,
I am slow,

When my boss takes a long time,

He is thorough

When I don’t do it,
I am lazy,

When my boss does not do it,

He is busy,

When I do something without being told,
I am trying to
be smart,
When my boss does the same,

He takes the initiative,

When I please my boss,
I am apple polishing,

When my boss pleases his boss,

He is cooperating
,

When I make a mistake,
I’ am an idiot.

When my boss makes a mistake,

He’s only human.

When I am out of the office,
I am wondering around.

When my boss is out of the office,
He’s on business.

When I am on a day off sick,
I am always sick.

When my boss is a day off sick,
He must be very ill.

When I apply for leave,
I must be going for an
interview .
When my boss applies for leave,

it’s because he’s overworked

When I do good,
My boss never remembers,

When I do wrong,

He never forgets

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Posted on January 2nd, 2010 by nidheesh chandran  |  1 Comment »

love to marry you dear ..

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Posted on December 23rd, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  1 Comment »

Lt. Saurabh Kalia -honest and brave son of INDIA

Lt. Saurabh Kalia
Lt. Saurabh Kalia of 4 JAT Regiment of the Indian Army laid down his
life at the young age of 22 for the nation while guarding the
frontiers at Kargil.
His parents, indeed the Indian Army and nation itself,
lost a dedicated, honest and brave son.
He was the first officer to detect and inform about
Pakistani intrusion. Pakistan captured him and his patrol party of 5
brave men alive on May 15, 1999 from the Indian side of LOC.
They were kept in captivity for three weeks and
subjected to unprecedented brutal torture, evident from their bodies handed over
by Pakistan Army on June 9, 1999.
The Pakistanis indulged in dastardly acts of inflicting burns on these Indian officers with cigarettes, piercing their ears with hot rods, removing their eyes before puncturing them and breaking most of the bones and teeth.
They even chopped off various limbs and private organs of the Indian soldiers besides inflicting unimaginable physical and mental torture.

After 22 days of torture, the brave soldiers were ultimately shot dead. A detailed post-mortem report is with the Indian Army. Pakistan dared to humiliate India this way flouting all international norms.
They proved the extent to which they can degrade humanity. However, the Indian soldiers did not break while undergoing all this unimaginable barbarism, which speaks volumes of their patriotism, grit, determination, tenacity and valour – something all of India should be proud of.
Sacrificing oneself for the nation is an honour every soldier would be proud of, but no parent, army or nation can accept what happened to these brave sons of India . I am afraid every parent may think twice to send their child in the armed forces if we all fall short of our duty in safeguarding the PRISONERS OF WAR AND LET THEM MEET THE FATE OF LT.SAURABH KALIA.
It may also send a demoralising signal to the army personnel fighting for the Nation that our POWs in Pak cannot be taken care of. It is a matter of shame and disgust that most of Indian Human Rights Organisations by and large, showed apathy in this matter.

Through this humble submission, may I appeal to all the civilized people irrespective of colour, caste, region, religion and political lineage to stir their conscience and rise to take this as a NATIONAL ISSUE !!!
International Human Rights Organizations must be approached to expose and pressure Pakistan to identify, book and punish all those who perpetrated this heinous crime to our men in uniform.
If Pakistan is allowed to go unpunished in this case, we can only imagine the consequences.
Below is the list of 5 other soldiers who preferred to die for the country rather than open their mouths in front of enemy -

1. Sep. Arjun Ram s/o Sh. Chokka Ram; Village & PO
Gudi. Teh. & Dist.
Nagaur, (Rajasthan)

2. Sep. Bhanwar Lal Bagaria h/o Smt. Santosh Devi;
Village Sivelara;Teh.&
Dist.Sikar (Rajasthan)
3. Sep. Bhikaram h/o Smt. Bhawri Devi; Village
Patasar; Teh.
Pachpatva;Distt.Barmer (Rajasthan)

4. Sep. Moola Ram h/o Smt. Rameshwari Devi; Village
Katori; Teh. Jayal;Dist.
Nagaur(Rajasthan)

5. Sep. Naresh Singh h/o Smt. Kalpana Devi; Village
Chhoti Tallam;
Teh.Iglab; Dist.Aligarh (UP)

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Posted on December 3rd, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  No Comments »

I’ll always be there

I’ll always be there
in any time,
in every place,
to touch you,
to love you,
to wipe the
tears from your face.
I’ll be the
warm wind
between shadow
and stone,
taking your heart
into the depths
of my own.
I’ll be with you
wherever you go,
on the clouds
on high,
on the firm
ground below.
I’ll be with you
in unexpected ways,
to guide you,
to watch you,
through all your days.
For you’re in my heart,
and you’re in my mind,
and I’m with you now
and for all time.

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Posted on December 2nd, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  No Comments »

LIFEBOOK 2010

Health:

1.    Drink plenty of water
2.    Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar
3.    Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less  food that is manufactured in plants
4.    Live with the 3 E’s — Energy,  Enthusiasm, and Empathy
5.    Make time for prayer
6.    Play more games
7.    Read more books than you did in 2009
8.    Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day
9.    Sleep for 7 hours
10.  Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day —- and while you walk,  smile

Personality:

11.  Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what  their journey is all about.
12.  Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control.  Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13.  Don’t over do ; keep your limits
14.  Don’t take yourself so seriously ; no one else does
15.  Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip
16.  Dream more while you are awake
17.  Envy is a waste of time.  You already have all you need.
18.  Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19.  Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20.  Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present
21.  No one is in charge of your happiness except you
22.  Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn.  Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23.  Smile and laugh more
24.  You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Community:

25.  Call your family often
26.  Each day give something good to others
27.  Forgive everyone for everything
28.  Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the  age of 6
29.  Try to make at least three people smile each day
30.  What other people think of you is none of your business
31.  Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:

32.  Do the right things
33.  Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful
34.  GOD heals everything
35.  However good or bad a situation is, it will change
36.  No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up
37.  The best is yet to come
38.  When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it
39.  Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

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Posted on December 1st, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  1 Comment »

My Thoughts on Life

You never know what to expect when it comes to love. You never know what to expect when it comes to life either. Life and love will always throw you curve balls, its up to you to either strike out or hit a home run.

Make sure you tell every one you love them for this very raeson, No one can predict what tomorrow will bring. You just have to live for today. You never know who will walk into or out of your life tomorrow.

I wish I would of thought about this before i wanted to give up on everything. I know now that i cant live in the past or live for the future. Today could be my last day on this earth so I’ll make the best of it.

Loving youself is not always an easy thing to do simply because we think we are not “good enough” or we don’t “deserve it”.  The truth is that everyone deserves a chance of happiness and love.  I know that putting your heart out there after you are hurt is not always an easy thing (I speak from experience); because all the insecurities tend to creep up and so we close up because we dont want to take a chance that might be the start of something special.  All of this to say if an opportunity presents itself don’t be afraid to take a chance because you never know what might come out of it.

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Posted on October 16th, 2009 by shonnie  |  No Comments »

Dr. Abdul Kalam’s Speech at Hyderabad

APJ abdul kalamWhy is the media here so negative?
Why are we in India so embarrassed to recognize our own strengths, our achievements? We are such a great nation. We have so many amazing success stories but we refuse acknowledge them—  Why?

We are the first in milk production.
We are number one in Remote sensing satellites.
We are the second largest producer of wheat.
We are the second largest producer of rice.
Look at Dr. Sudarshan , he has transferred the tribal village into a self-sustaining, self-driving unit.

There are millions of such achievements but our media is only obsessed in the bad news and failures and disasters.

I was in Tel Aviv once and I was reading the Israeli newspaper. It was the day after a lot of attacks and bombardments and deaths had taken place. The Hamas had struck. But the front page of the newspaper had the picture of a  Jewish gentleman who in five years had transformed his desert into an orchid and a granary. It was this inspiring picture that everyone woke up to. The gory details of killings, bombardments, deaths, were inside in the newspaper, buried among other news.

In India we only read about death, sickness, terrorism, crime.

Why are we so NEGATIVE?

Another question: Why are we, as a nation so obsessed with foreign things? We want foreign T. Vs, we want foreign shirts. We want foreign technology.

Why this obsession with everything imported. Do we not realize that self-respect comes with self-reliance? I was in Hyderabad giving this lecture,when a 14 year old girl asked me for my autograph. I asked her what her goal in life is. She replied: I want to live in a developed India . For her, you and I will have to build this developed India . You must proclaim. India is not an under-developed nation; it is a highly developed nation.

Do you have 10 minutes? Allow me to come back with a vengeance.

Got 10 minutes for your country? If yes, then read; otherwise, choice is yours.
YOU say that our government is inefficient.
YOU say that our laws are too old.
YOU say that the municipality does not pick up the garbage.
YOU say that the phones don’t work, the railways are a joke,
The airline is the worst in the world, mails never reach their destination.
YOU say that our country has been fed to the dogs and is the absolute pits.

YOU say, say and say. What do YOU do about it?

Take a person on his way to Singapore . Give him a name – YOURS. Give him aface – YOURS. YOU walk out of the airport and you are at your International best. In Singapore you don’t throw cigarette butts on the roads or eat in the stores…. YOU are as proud of their Underground links as they are. You pay $5 (approx. Rs. 60) to drive through Orchard Road (equivalent of Mahim Causeway or Pedder Road ) between 5 PM and 8 PM. YOU come back to the parking lot to punch your parking ticket if you have over stayed in a restaurant or a shopping mall irrespective of your status identity… In Singapore you don’t say anything, DO YOU?

YOU wouldn’t dare to eat in public during Ramadan, in Dubai .

YOU would not dare to go out without your head covered in Jeddah .

YOU would not dare to buy an employee of the telephone exchange in London at 10 pounds ( Rs.650) a month to, ’see to it that my STD and ISD calls are billed to someone else.’

YOU would not dare to speed beyond 55 mph (88 km/h) in Washington and then tell the traffic cop,’Jaanta hai main kaun hoon (Do you know who I am?). I am so and so’s son. Take your two bucks and get lost.’

YOU wouldn’t chuck an empty coconut shell anywhere other than the garbage pail on the beaches in Australia and New
Zealand .

Why don’t YOU spit Paan on the streets of Tokyo ? Why don’t YOU use examination jockeys or buy fake certificates in Boston ??? We are still  talking of the same YOU.

YOU who can respect and conform to a foreign system in other countries but cannot in your own. You who will throw papers and cigarettes on the road the moment you touch Indian ground. If you can be an involved and appreciative citizen in an alien country, why cannot you be the same here in India ?

Once in an interview, the famous Ex-municipal commissioner of Bombay , Mr. Tinaikar , had a point to make. ‘Rich people’s dogs are walked on the streets to leave their affluent droppings all over the place,’ he said. ‘And then the same people turn around to criticize and blame the authorities for inefficiency and dirty pavements. What do they expect the
officers to do? Go down with a broom every time their dog feels the pressure in his bowels? In America every dog owner has to clean up after his pet has done the job. Same in Japan . Will the Indian citizen do that here?’ He’s right. We go to the polls to choose a government and after that forfeit all responsibility.

We sit back wanting to be pampered and expect the government to do everything for us whilst our contribution is totally negative. We expect the government to clean up but we are not going to stop chucking garbage all over the place nor are we going to stop to pick a up a stray piece of paper and throw it in the bin.

We expect the railways to provide clean bathrooms but we are not going to learn the proper use of bathrooms.

We want Indian Airlines and Air India to provide the best of food and toiletries but we are not going to stop pilfering at the least opportunity.

This applies even to the staff who is known not to pass on the service to the public. When it comes to burning social issues like those related towomen, dowry, girl child! and others, we make loud drawing room protestations and continue to do the reverse at home. Our excuse?

‘It’s the whole system which has to change, how will it matter if I alone forego my sons’ rights to a dowry.’ So who’s going to change the system? What does a system consist of ? Very conveniently for us it consists of our neighbours, other households, other cities, other communities and the government. But definitely not me and YOU.

When it comes to us actually making a positive contribution to the system we lock ourselves along with our families into a safe cocoon and look into the distance at countries far away and wait for a Mr.Clean to come along & work miracles for us with a majestic sweep of his hand or we leave the country and run away. Like lazy cowards hounded by our fears we run to America to bask in their glory and praise their system. When New York becomes insecure we run to England . When England experiences unemployment, we take the next flight out
to the Gulf. When the Gulf is war struck, we demand to be rescued and brought home by the Indian government. Everybody is out to abuse and rape the country. Nobody thinks of feeding the system. Our conscience is mortgaged to money.

Dear Indians, The article is highly thought inductive, calls for a greatdeal of introspection and pricks one’s conscience too…. I am echoing J. F. Kennedy ’s words to his fellow Americans to relate to Indians…..

‘ASK WHAT WE CAN DO FOR INDIA
AND DO WHAT HAS TO BE DONE TO MAKE INDIA
WHAT AMERICA AND OTHER WESTERN COUNTRIES ARE TODAY’

Lets do what India needs from us.

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Posted on October 15th, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  No Comments »

Love Through Net

I couldn’t touch your face or kiss your lips
I couldn’t even hold your hand
All we could do was type words accross a screen
It was almost as if we were in this imaginary land
I can tell you everything in our cyber world.
You allow me the freedom to explore…
my dreams…
my emotions…
my fantasies…

Things I wouldn’t tell anyone! You take my thoughts,
Smile back…and let me go on typing.
You are just beside me in our cyber world,
Asking nothing of me, Yet, you are beside me.
If I told you that I loved you,
You would smile back and say, OK.THANKS.
Knowing full well that this is a reality
we don’t have to touch.
You’d know that there is no possible way…
That I could love a person I just met online.

I love you….
You’d let me say it anyway,
Return my passion with a cyber smile,hug,and kiss.
And let me enjoy the seconds and minutes
In this little slice of time,
Without a care of our realities.

I fell in love with you over time
Through all the Instant Messages, phone calls,
texts, and emails
Our love grew higher than we could climb
Days turned to weeks, and weeks turns to months
We knew each other better than anyone ever could
Endless hours were spent talking about everything
and nothing

We laughed and we cried,
we spent more time together than we should
Our love was like no other, different yes but true
How can I fall in love with someone I can’t see?
Maybe it was the words you typed across my screen
Or maybe it was the thought of something that could never be
We promised we would be together someday
no matter how long it would take.
But sometimes promises get broken
and dreams not always come true
And one of us need to be let go.
But our memories still remain so always hoping good as u said.

 

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Posted on July 17th, 2009 by shonnie  |  No Comments »

100 Rs cheap escape..

About indian gov or indian police ..

last week i got caught by the kerala police as i have  found drunk while driving… after a few days i have caught by Tamil Nadu police for smoking at railway station .. in  first case ..

According to the procedures for the first case they should take me to a Hospital for verifying the alcohol content in my body
and i belive i should pay a fine of Rs 2000 for that.
and in the second case (i really don’t know the procedures ) still i believe its more serious than the first one .. because it happnd in a railway station…
and now days i heard tamilnadu police got a record for cathing  a ton’s of smokers who break the law of public smoking .. dont know how much truth in that… yea in both time i have excuse to do so … first time am comming after a marriage function so am little drunk .. remanov vodka (metlajo’s cocktail) .. 2nd time am at ooty soo cold .. and friend pushed me to smoke there …. what ever .. both time i got escaped by shove-ing 100 INR into copass.. a silly 100 rs cheap escape ..
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Posted on June 21st, 2009 by nidheesh chandran  |  No Comments »